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Burnout: Signs You're Running on Empty

Burnout isn't laziness or weakness. It's what happens when you've given more than you have for too long.

Exhausted person experiencing workplace burnout

There's a difference between being tired and being burnt out. Tired is when you need a good night's sleep. Burnt out is when you need a complete life restructure.

What Is Burnout?

The World Health Organization officially recognizes burnout as an occupational phenomenon characterized by:

  • Feelings of energy depletion or exhaustion
  • Increased mental distance from one's job, or feelings of negativism or cynicism related to one's job
  • Reduced professional efficacy

But burnout isn't limited to work. You can burn out from caregiving, parenting, creative pursuits, or life in general.

Signs of Burnout

Physical Signs

  • Chronic fatigue that doesn't improve with rest
  • Frequent illness (your immune system tanks)
  • Headaches, muscle pain, digestive issues
  • Changes in sleep patterns
  • Changes in appetite

Emotional Signs

  • Feeling empty or drained
  • Sense of failure and self-doubt
  • Feeling helpless, trapped, or defeated
  • Detachment and isolation
  • Decreased satisfaction and accomplishment

Behavioural Signs

  • Withdrawing from responsibilities
  • Procrastinating more than usual
  • Using substances to cope
  • Taking frustrations out on others
  • Skipping work or calling in sick

If you're also experiencing anxiety or depression, burnout might be contributing.

The Three Stages of Burnout

Stage 1: Stress Arousal

Occasional anxiety, forgetfulness, irritability. You can still function, but warning signs are appearing.

Stage 2: Energy Conservation

Lateness, procrastination, decreased productivity, cynicism. Your body is trying to protect you by withdrawing.

Stage 3: Exhaustion

Chronic sadness, physical symptoms, inability to function. This is full burnout.

Burnout vs. Depression

They overlap but aren't identical:

  • Burnout is situational — remove the stressor, and you improve
  • Depression is pervasive — it affects all areas of life

However, prolonged burnout can lead to depression. Research shows significant overlap between the two conditions.

What Causes Burnout?

  • Unsustainable workload
  • Lack of control over your work
  • Insufficient reward (financial or emotional)
  • Absence of community and support
  • Unfair treatment
  • Mismatch between values and work

Notice that most of these are systemic, not personal failures.

Recovery and Prevention

Set Boundaries

This is non-negotiable. Healthy boundaries protect your resources. No is a complete sentence.

Prioritize Recovery

Sleep, genuine self-care, time off. Recovery isn't a reward — it's a requirement.

Address the Source

Sometimes recovery requires structural change: a different role, fewer commitments, or leaving a toxic situation.

Seek Support

Therapy, coaching, or simply talking to people who understand. You don't have to figure this out alone.

The Hard Truth

Burnout isn't cured by a holiday. If you return to the same unsustainable situation, you'll burn out again. Sometimes real recovery means real change.

Your worth isn't measured by your productivity.